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A Realistic Alternative to the “Don’t Compare” Advice
Tired of the “don’t compare” cliché? Discover a practical approach to self-acceptance and personal growth that goes beyond empty advice.
Introduction
In the journey of figuring out who we are and getting better at it, we often hear folks saying, “Don’t compare yourself to others.” It’s like advice to keep us feeling good about ourselves, but what if there’s another way that doesn’t tell us to stop doing something so natural to us? Let’s chat about that!
The Myth of Being Totally Different
People often say not to compare because they believe everyone is super different. While it’s true we’re all our own unique flavor, let’s not forget we’re also built to look, learn, and adapt from each other. Instead of telling ourselves not to do something so natural, how about we find a way to use it for good?
Understanding Comparison in a Healthy Way:
Instead of saying “no” to comparing, let’s rethink it. Instead of looking at others’ achievements like they’re impossible goals, let’s see them as cool ideas we can learn from. Say you admire a friend’s knack for managing time — don’t see it as a superpower you don’t have, but as a chance to get better at organizing your own time.
